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How to be a good father?

Role of a father is important to raise a stable family. Although the role of raising their children are more inclined to the wife but the father needs to be there too for the children. If one can be a good father, not only the children will grow up happy but it also enriches their lives.

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Role of a father is important to raise a stable family. Although the role of raising their children are more inclined to the wife but the father needs to be there too for the children. If one can be a good father, not only the children will grow up happy but it also makes lives richer.

A father is an integral part of the family. Family values have always maintained this and there are no doubts that a father figure is a positive thing for children.

In modern society, to be a father is really an important duty. It is really not easy to be able to "play hard", "earn a lot", as well as to form a parent-child relationship and raise the children together with the wife. A good parent-child relationship cannot be built in a day, and parents have to take really a lot of time and energy. If you can be a good father, not only can you make your children grow up healthy and happy, you will also make your life more abundant.

Children growing up without the stability of both parents are more socially at risk compared to their peers. Of course there are exceptions, but life without a father figure stacks the odds against the children. Sometimes these kids can resort to drugs, emotional and health problems, academic failure and tantrums. Without their father, children are susceptible to all of these problems.

A father can provide peace and happiness to the marriage. Fathers are usually a source of development, stability and consultations for their children. Good fathers do not act indifferent to their children’s needs. In the event they do not know how to answer and solve problems for the children, they will be polite and promise to return with a better answer some other time.

A well-taught child will know how to differentiate between good and evil and to evaluate between what is healthy or otherwise.

As a father, they also provide kindness, material expenses, education, recreation and stability to the whole family.

A duty of a father among others is to take care of his children and pray for Allah SWT’s blessings.

But it is rather sad to see, in modern times, a father can simply relegate the task of parenting only to the wife. They are not usually seen to be much interested in the onerous job of overseeing the moral training and education of his children. This can lead to the educational backwardness of Muslims societies.

This should not be the case in a Muslim family especially when Islam regards family values as one of the most important aspects to shape a stable family thus creates a strong nation. There is a great need to start changing such kinds of attitude especially among the man of the house. A father should realize such burden of raising their children does not falls only on the wife’s shoulder but also on theirs. Therefore, start re-evaluating the roles as a father and make a change in order to build a strong and stable society.

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